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(Part two) How to be in a Healthy, Loving Relationship, with Dr Thomas Jordan

How we can all heal a disappointing love life…

People are losing faith in marriage. Arguably, they are also losing faith in love. So what can we do about this?

Love is a prevailing factor in everyone’s life. Whether it be love in a friendship, love for your family or romantic love – there is no doubt that it is tremendously important.

Over our lifetime, we observe the relationships around us – our parents, relatives, and friends – as a result we tend to pick up patterns. Often, these patterns are harmful, unhealthy or/and toxic. Unfortunately, they become embedded in our subconscious mind and so we must make an effort to become aware.  Dr Thomas Jordan is a psychoanalyst, clinical psychologist and author. He has invaluable knowledge on the psychology of relationships. Dr Jordan imparts his insight in this fascinating (second-half) of our conversation.

And if you haven’t listened to the first part of this conversation, go and listen now. This is an amazingly in-depth conversation with Tom using examples from his own life to explain what he’s talking about.

“”Love is like a seed. Once it hits healthy relationship, it proliferates, it begins to grow. So once you’ve identified it, you can interfere with what you don’t want and look for what you want.”

About Today’s Guest: Dr Thomas Jordan

Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Certified Psychoanalyst, Board Certified Disability Consultant

Dr. Thomas Jordan is a clinical psychologist and interpersonal psychoanalyst with a private practice in New York City. He specialises in relationships and love.

He is on the faculty of NYU’s Postdoctoral Program in Psychoanalysis, author of Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life and founder of Dr. Jordan specializes in the treatment of unhealthy love lives and has been studying them for over 30 years.

He has invaluable knowledge from working with many different patients, as well as his own personal experience within his marriage. Dr Jordan has improved his own love life and is dedicated to help improving others.

His most recent recent book, Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life is a step-by-step guide aimed at helping people find out what they’ve learned about love relationships when it’s unhealthy, and how to change it.

This fascinating book shows readers a simple and highly effective way of dramatically improving their psychological ability to form and sustain healthy relationships.

Connect with Dr Jordan and the Love Life Learning Centre:




Love Life Learning Centre

Dr Thomas Jordan created Love Life Learning Centre to help people with love life problems find the information they’ll need to solve them.

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